Talking of which, we love practical gifts which become a challenge for our partners. How about embracing and celebrating differences rather than trying to get other people to fit a mold or an ideal that no real human being can meet? I finally decided that she might actually be 'the one', so I asked her out on a dinner date. In fact, one of the primary reasons INTJs seek relationships is to have someone to share ideas with. By then, the object of our affection will have lost interest. I didn't read everyone else's comments until after I wrote mine.
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7 Things I Learned While Dating As An INTJ
People entering this world need to fit this fantasy, and it can be incredibly difficult for INTJs to find someone up to the task. It's funny how many women INTJ's complain, but have options to decide upon, and can enter into fulfilling relations. What if I actually AM more intelligent, driven, passionate than any of them. Inside our cold exterior, there is a big volcano waiting to be discovered. It is right to be cautious before entering a relationship. They probably have a better sense of themselves than most types. Being open is going to bring you lots of joy in the dating game and can eventually land you near your perfect partner!