The spoil factor is in connection with a few other negatives. Sri Lanka, if not a rape-ey culture, a very unsafe environment for women in general. He is very very skinny and when I offer him food offer, not insisting he makes a 'disgusted' face, as if I was offering him something unedible this no matter what food I propose. Too many young men are out of work and out of confidence, and their primal desires and deep longed for aspirations cannot be realized to easily. For the best answers, search on this site https:
Men who are overeager or jump when the woman says jump are the ones who are more likely to end up in the friend zone.
Any advice on dating a Sri Lanka/Indian guy would be great?
There is a direct connection between sexual frustration and violence. The spoil factor is in connection with a few other negatives. Americans cannot understand this. Women like appreciation and compete with each other for appreciation. It takes two hands to clap so putting the entire blame on the man may sound unfair as women too are sometimes contributory to men acting in an improper manner.