You're probably best to use a bed or a soft, raised surface if you want to really nail this selfie pose. Sometimes the cuter, more tasteful selfies will really get a guy's attention, especially when he appreciates girls that are a little more shy or reluctant to show too much. This is especially true if you've spent lots of time in the gym, and have muscles that are actually bigger than most guys'. One selfie pose you should probably avoid is one where you are standing and looking down at the camera. It's common to see girls showing off their bodies after doing tons of squats for months, and that's the best exercise that you can do to make this selfie pose look even hotter than usual. Some guys love a muscular, ripped woman.
This is probably an obvious one, but selfies that focus more on new shoes or clothes generally don't really interest guys.
If you want to make this selfie extra special, drape your head and shoulders right off the edge of the bed, so that your back is arched and your head is hanging off the bed in a truly provocative pose. This might actually be bad idea, as they could start freaking out about you wanting to have kids before he's ready. The fact that you are able to have and raise children means that you are prime mate material, on a very deep psychological level. Try these poses if you really want to get your man going. Most girls like a man who's willing to fight for them maybe not literally, but the point is they care about you. When we were young, we never would have dreamed of associating a much beloved candy with anything dirty.